So you’ve decided to bite the bullet and you’ve registered to that dating site all your friends have been talking about. You created your profile, started messaging people and a couple of days later you’re chatting away to this man / woman / or other person and it is all going well between the two of you. So well that in fact you’ve agreed to meet for a walk and a drink, well done! But now it suddenly hits you: you’re going to be physically in the same room, face-to-face and all that. The question is: can you handle that or will you be a bit too nervous? Because when it comes to the date itself, conversations might not flow as easily from your mouth as they do from your mobile or computer keyboard.
A good place to start is for you to go over the conversations you’ve been having online. Especially if you’re using the chatroom of a dating site then you will be able to access the conversations on your screen. Just read what you have been talking about to get to know the other person better, and also to see what subjects you have been covering. Maybe you’ve both talked about some of your passions and it will always be a good idea to come back to those. On the other hands you don’t want a repeat of what you’ve already talked about because that might just feel a little weird.
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